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Round-up​ of the Week

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globe-1290378_640News from around the world

Large bushfire hits Australia, hundreds of firefighters are tackling a blaze that has reportedly affected homes in the southern suburbs of Sydney. Some residents have been instructed to seek shelter as evacuation is now too dangerous. The fire service is concerned that flying embers could spark new blazes ahead of the advancing fire front.

 

LondonNews from London

A man has died in hospital, just two days after a suspected hit-and-run in Cricklewood Broadway on Wednesday 5am. The police are appealing for any information about what happened to the 67-year-old.

 

Me.1My News

I’ve been off work all week with what started out as a viral infection in my throat and progressed to a bacterial infection, so I have spent the week relaxing. My sister and niece came over on Saturday and we went for a meal with Mum and Dad although the exertion did take it out of me!

 

Me.2Writing News

Sins of the Father came back from the editor and I’m working on the edits. I also typed up the beginning of book three which has a working name of ‘The other side of the Streets.’ I also typed up a children’s book which I wrote a while back, ‘When Tommy Tiger Lost his Stripes.’

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My Review of ‘The Baby & the Bride’ by Laura Barnard

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After devouring book one, I nosedived straight into this book and have to say I loved it too although it became a little samey and predictable but fun reading none the less and I’m glad I read it. The characterisations are great and I love the friendships within this book. My only real criticism though is that there were quite a few mistakes in here that were missed. It didn’t spoil it for me but did bring me out of the story a few times more than I’d have liked.

Pick up your copy here:

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Round-up​ of the Week.

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globe-1290378_640News from around the world

Parents of a young man with Downs-Syndrome in Delhi were told when he was a child that he wouldn’t be able to do anything. Now years on he can drive and has a pottery studio which he set up with his mum.

Truly inspirational

Check this young man out for yourself:

 

LondonNews from London

A teenager has been charged with the murder of an 18-year-old man who was stabbed to death in east London. A 17-year-old male appeared at Thames Magistrates’ Court, charged with murder and possession of an offensive weapon, he will be appearing at the Old Bailey on Tuesday.

 

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My News

Another busy week at work.

The weekend started well, a busy day yesterday but woke up with a raw throat this morning, struggling to swallow and pain in my ears so will be off work for a while until this viral infection clears.

 

 

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Writing News

Sins of the Father went back to the editor and I started book three of the series set in Brazil which has a working title of ‘The Other Side of the Streets.’

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Work/Life balance

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Does it exist? It would seem to me that the scales tip firmly on the side of work – so where is the balance?

Work takes up the majority of our working hours but it seems that employers are taking up more of our leisure time as working hours and stress levels increase. Where does that leave downtime? I can tell you that is doesn’t. We’re so caught up on this endless treadmill of trying to earn a living to put a roof over our heads, pay the bills, support a family etc… that we end up spending so much time at work to pay for it all. When you get home, chores, eating and head to bed so that you can face the next day. Weekends are the time you catch up on chores and can maybe indulge a little in whatever passes for leisure for you. Then on a Monday morning, barely refreshed we step back onto that treadmill of life again.

Many years ago my brother said, “You either work to live or live to work. ” this has always resonated with me. I don’t live to work. Don’t get me wrong, I have to work and I want to enjoy what I do. I have a strong work ethic and believe in giving my all to work, but all that results in is burn out. Over the last few years, I’ve experienced and heard more and more about horrendous work conditions. Now bearing in mind that maybe 50% of the population (this is a guess – see the maybe!) work to live then how have we allowed ourselves to end up in places that tear at our sanity, rob us of our sleep and make us dread going to work? Now I’m not suggesting that everyone experiences this, for all those people who love/like/enjoy going to work, I’m very pleased for you – that is how it should be.

Now, this really isn’t just a post about personal experience, this is something I’ve been hearing from people around me. Some very capable people, who work hard are being undermined, bosses, managers are chipping away at people’s self-confidence. I hear you say, well why do you stay? Good point. Except when they leave they find themselves in a similar situation in another company.

Why are things so dire? Have they always been that bad? Or as we get older do we struggle to deal with it? Are we worn out by it all?

I’m 44 years old and I know that I can’t take another 20 years of this but I have a plan for an exit strategy, which is a few years down the line but maybe not quite 20. My intention is to eventually be able to give up full-time work and live off what I earn from my writing. A long way off as I might have already mentioned. But with this in mind I have to spend a lot of my spare time writing, this is no hardship as I love writing, which brings me back to my earlier point of having fewer leisure hours in which to do it. Now let’s add into the mix, lack of sleep, messed up mind and inability to switch off from a demanding job and you can see what a challenge I have set myself.

“Take Care Of Your Employees And They’ll Take Care Of Your Business,” Says Richard Branson, Founder Of The Virgin Group.

Check this out 

ACAS: “Look after your staff and they’ll take care of the rest”

Check this out

ACAS has even published a guide on how to get the right balance to look after staff.

It isn’t just me saying it: when the leading employment law specialists and a man as successful as Richard Branson are recognising the importance of a good workforce and looking after them, why is it so hard for employers to do it?

If you compare yourself to a rechargeable battery for a moment (go with me) and you keep running that battery to empty and then put it on change for the bare minimum of time, you’ll only get the bare minimum back. If, however, you keep that battery topped up you get the best from it. (You see where I went with that?) Workplace empowerment creates a good environment where staff want to strive to be the best. Constant pressure and micromanagement create a stressed workforce who try to do their best under trying circumstances but invariably they burn out. We spend the best parts of our days at work, we should be able to feel safe there.

If you are a manager/boss and you’re reading this, think about this truth: People rarely leave their job, they leave their boss. Empower your staff don’t drain them.

Leaving you with one small thought: If 15,000 people picked up a copy of one of my novels, I could give up working for a year.

If 30,000 people did – I’d have two years grace.

If that were to happen I could leave my stressful work environment behind and write full-time.

Let’s get this trending #helpMariagiveupwork 😉

If you’re tempted in the US:

If you’re tempted in the UK:

 

I’d love to hear back from you on the following.

Do you live to work or work to live?

What are your experiences in the workplace, good or bad? Feel free to share experiences.

 

 

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Monday Chuckles

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I have started this fortnightly blog slot which I’ve called chuckles due to popular demand. A lot of these funnies have been emailed to me through the years and they’ve sat in my inbox. Occasionally I’ve shared them on Facebook and I’ve had a great response. People have told me how much they’ve brightened their day. It was suggested that I blog them so I am. Please note there is no offence meant in any of these jokes, if you take offence then that is because of your outlook, not mine. All I want is to make people laugh, I will never post anything that I think victimises anyone.


Japanese Sex

A Japanese couple is arguing about how to perform highly erotic sex.

Husband: “Sukitaki. Mojitaka!”

Wife replies: “Kowanini! Mowi janakpa!”

Husband says angrily: “Toka a anji rodi roumi yakoo!”

Wife, on her knees, literally begging: “Mimi Nakoundinda tinkouji!”

Husband shouts angrily: “Na miaou kin Tim Kouji!”

I can’t believe you just sat there trying to read this!

You don’t know any Japanese!

You’ll read anything as long as it’s about sex…

Sometimes I worry about you.

You’re in need of serious help!


“Mr Murphy, I have reviewed this case very carefully,” the divorce court judge said, “And I have decided to give your wife €775 a week.”

“That’s very fair your honour,” the husband said, “And every now and then I will try to send her a few quid myself.”


A senior citizen said to his eighty-year old buddy: ‘So I hear you’re getting married?’

‘Yep!’

‘Do I know her?’

‘Nope!’

‘This woman, is she good looking?’

‘Not really.’

‘Is she a good cook?’

‘Naw, she can’t cook too well.’

‘Does she have lots of money?’

‘Nope! Poor as a church mouse.’

‘Well, then, is she good in bed?’

‘I don’t know.’

‘Why in the world do you want to marry her then?’

‘Because she can still drive!’


 Morris, an 82-year-old man, went to the doctor to get a physical.

A few days later, the doctor saw Morris walking down the street with a gorgeous young woman on his arm.

A couple of days later, the doctor spoke to Morris and said, ‘You’re really doing great, aren’t you?’

Morris replied, ‘Just doing what you said, Doc: ‘Get a hot mamma and be cheerful.”

The doctor said, ‘I didn’t say that…I said, ‘You’ve got a heart murmur; be careful.’


Jacob, age 81 and Rebecca, age 80, living in Miami, are all excited about their decision to get married. They go for a stroll to discuss the wedding, and on the way, they pass a drugstore. Jacob suggests they go in.

Jacob addresses the man behind the counter: “Are you the owner?”

The pharmacist answers, “Yes.”

Jacob: “We’re about to get married. Do you sell heart medication?”

Pharmacist: “Of course, we do.”

Jacob: “How about medicine for circulation?”

Pharmacist: “All kinds.”

Jacob: “Medicine for rheumatism?”

Pharmacist: “Definitely.”

Jacob: “How about suppositories?”

Pharmacist: “You bet!”

Jacob: “Medicine for memory problems, arthritis and Alzheimer’s?”

Pharmacist: “Yes, a large variety. The Works.”

Jacob: “What about vitamins, sleeping pills, Geritol, antidotes for Parkinson’s disease?”

Pharmacist: “Absolutely.”

Jacob: “Everything for heartburn and indigestion?”

Pharmacist: “We sure do.”

Jacob: “You sell wheelchairs and walkers and canes?”

Pharmacist: “All speeds and sizes.”

Jacob: “Adult diapers?”

Pharmacist: “Sure.”

Jacob: “We’d like to use this store as our Bridal Registry.”

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Round-up of the week:

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globe-1290378_640News from around the world

A couple in Kuwait was sentenced to death for killing a Filipina maid. A Lebanese man and his Syrian wife were convicted in absentia. The body of the maid was dumped in a freezer in their abandoned apartment and it was discovered over a year after the murder.


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A paralysed man is hoping to become the first paraplegic male to walk the London Marathon. Simon Kindleysides, 34, from Norwich, was diagnosed with a brain rumour which left him paralysed from the waist down. It will take Simon, 37 hours to complete the course wearing an exoskeleton suit.

What an inspirational man.


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Work has been busy and has seen me at two different sites with two different sets of challenges.

My son came home for Easter on Good Friday and will be going home Easter Monday. We went out for a meal with my parents and my sister and niece on Saturday and on Sunday went to Mum and Dad’s for dinner, spending some time with my brother and nephew.

It has been a lovely chilled out weekend.

My sister and I have finally signed up for the half-marathon that we’ve been talking about for the last couple of months. Training to start in earnest now. It won’t be until September, so enough time to do this sensibly.

I’ve been working at challenging a particular fear of mine this week. I have a fear of going around the Hammersmith Roundabout and this week I did it, twice. I won’t say I’m not scared still but I did feel an amazement sense of achievement and if I continue to do it this will be one fear I can say goodbye to.


Me.2Writing News

Sent out March’s newsletter with a sneak preview of my new cover for Sins of the Father which everyone else can see shortly.

I’ve spent my free time working on the edits on Sins, I have reached 68/122.


 

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Author Interview with DM Miller

 

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  1. Do you write as a full-time author or do you have to squeeze it in around a full-time job or looking after the children? If you don’t write as your main job what are your aims for your writing?

I have been writing more or less full-time, though I have to squeeze it around family responsibilities, as most people do. However, I will likely begin working for someone else soon and will have to reorganize my time. Now that I have a substantial body of work, I will slowly build on it, perhaps adding a book or so each year, rather than two or three.

  1. What inspires you to write?

Writing is, of course, a creative outlet and began as catharsis for me, driven by the need to express myself and pour my soul onto the page. I’ve never been into destructive vices like drinking or drugs. I just write, and while catharsis is still very much a part of it, it is also about having something to say and being able to say it within what is hopefully an entertaining story.

  1. Tell me about your writing process, when and how? Are you a plotter or a pantser?

So far, I’ve generally fit writing around my schedule, half in the morning and half either in the afternoon or evening, depending on my day. I am more a plotter than pantser, but once you start writing and the words are flowing, the inspiration might take you to a place you weren’t expecting and hadn’t plotted. That’s okay. When that happens, I just change or add to my plans to make it work.

  1. How much of your life experience goes into your books if at all?

Our life experiences have to influence our writing in one way or another because what we’ve lived dictates our perspectives. In a literal sense, the book that has borrowed more specifics from my real life is Mexican Summer, but only in the beginning. I really did travel to Coatepec, to the Hill of Snakes, to the two waterfalls they visit when sightseeing, etc. But the hotel is different, the subsequent settings are made up though somewhat based on reality, and naturally the story itself is pure fiction. However, I do know people who have gone through similar experiences and am combining a little of this and a little of that to create what goes on in this fictitious plot.

 As for my Heart series, again it’s fiction, but the characters are mash-ups of various people I know or have known. So to answer your question, I guess a lot of my life does go into my books but more as an influence rather than a carbon copy.

  1. Describe your ideal writing location if money were no issue.

Oh, I suppose I’d have a house with a huge patio overlooking the red rocks of Sedona or somewhere in Utah. Israel is another dream. I’d also have an office with a picture window of the same fantastic view for when it’s too cold or rainy to write outside. Most people would probably want to write at the beach, but I’m more into crazy rock formations and cacti.

  1. What is the hardest part of the writing process for you?

Sometimes I get stuck in the middle. I know the beginning and the end, but I need ample time to plot the path in between.

  1. What one thing would you fix about the whole world to make it a better place?

Wow, what a question! Hate is the biggest problem. It must be human nature to hate what is different or what we don’t understand. You know, most people who hate Jews have never met one? It’s true! They are brainwashed to hate, but once they get to know real people, they realize they were wrong. It happens all the time among various groups of people. That’s where writing comes in. We can write stories and make these different people come to life and show how relatable they are. But we’re not all the same, which is why I write about our differences too so we can understand what the conflicts are about. Before you can change anything, you have to understand it.

  1. What is your favourite review from any of your books?

One reader wrote a long review of Holiday of the Heart, but the end of it is my favorite part because it shows that he gets me. He understands just exactly what I’m doing:

“I see an underlying philosophical issue in her writing, which is entertaining to see played out with real-life events. This is why Ms. Miller’s novels are real works of literature — there is a fun story anyone can read, but, there is also a philosophical message which adds a deeper meaning for those willing to spend the time thinking about what is taking shape in the story.

“I actually read her latest novel slowly because it will be awhile before the next novel in the series comes out, and I know the wait will be a mild form of torture. I’m not sure how this series will ultimately end, but I can’t wait to find out. If you have yet to read Ms. Miller’s books, then you really do owe it to yourself to take a chance on her —– you won’t be disappointed.”

 The same reader has written incredible reviews of all my books, one of which I posted on my blog: https://dmmillerauthor.wordpress.com/2017/07/19/a-review-to-remember/

 I know you asked for my favorite, but if I may, just one more for Agony of the Heart:

“A beautiful story, beautifully told. This book wrenches you apart and puts you back together again, gives you laughter and tears and everything you could hope for. It’s impossible to read it without falling in love with the protagonists. A more-than-worthy follow up to Religion of the Heart.”

  1. When you’re not writing, working, looking after the kids what else do you enjoy doing?

Traveling. With money and time, I would travel all over the world. Nothing beats seeing new places, experiencing different cultures and learning new things!

  1. Can you tell me what you’re working on now?

 

As a matter of fact, today is the release day of my newest book of poetry and essays entitled, Banished Thoughts! It may even be too soon to add a link on here, but if you search for the title on Amazon, you will find it. Or check out my author page: https://www.amazon.com/D.M.-Miller/e/B012RDNV76/

 

THE BOOKS

HALF-JEW: SEARCHING FOR IDENTITY (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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What is a Half-Jew?

Neither this nor that. Practically synonymous with confusion, Half-Jew is a term for people stuck in no-man’s land, not quite fitting in with Gentiles nor universally accepted as Jews.

Some say there is no such thing, denying many their legitimate heritage and innate pull toward the same culture, ancestry and religious equivalence as those with Jewish matrilineage. Those born of a Jewish father and non-Jewish mother are often lost, searching for a true identity.

 

D.M. Miller makes a compelling case to prove the doubters wrong. In analyzing religious arguments, medical and genetic studies, history and ancestry, this intimate part-memoir tells the personal story of one woman determined to eradicate the stigma, unravel the misunderstandings and come to terms with what identity is or isn’t through her unique perspective as a Half-Jew.

MEXICAN SUMMER (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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After escaping an abusive marriage, Ashley stands at a crossroads. Desperate for a change, a move to Texas promises a brighter future, but she craves something more. The invitation to a Mexican vacation with Graciela and Bill comes at the perfect time.

 

Upon arrival, she meets Graciela’s brother Cristián. An immediate attraction blossoms, and Ashley dares to hope. But the blissful trip takes a harrowing turn with a devastating car crash. A series of shocking events follow, throwing her into a whirlwind adventure.

In a fight to survive, Ashley must face sinister forces. Who can she trust? What’s really going on beneath the surface?

 

And will she ever find the love she truly desires?

THE RELIGION OF THE HEART (HEART SERIES BOOK ONE) (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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Catherine and Abdul come from two opposing worlds. She is raised in the West, while he calls Egypt home. Their first meeting is little more than a fleeting moment, but it sparks over a decade-long desperation and agonizing battle to be together.

 

Incompatible religions, distinct cultures and hot-tempered families vowing to keep them apart are the overwhelming hurdles they face, and reality hits once mysteries are solved and the fairytale beginning fades away. They are left with difficult decisions as they determine how important their respective religions are and whether or not their cultures can mesh.

 

Can an enduring yet taboo love conquer all when conflicting religions are duking it out, or will threatening roadblocks stand in the way?

 

(Read a review of The Religion of the Heart on The Times of Israel here.)

AGONY OF THE HEART (HEART SERIES BOOK TWO) (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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Does he still love her? That’s what Catherine wants to know, her desperate longing unanswered, as life and prior dreams fall flat. Fervently searching for what was and what should be, her downward spiral leaves Abdul scratching his head. Picking up the shattered pieces is not easy, and the man who turned his life upside down has crucial choices to make.

 

Throw a Muslim, a Jew, determination, disappointment, anti-Semitism and claims of Islamophobia in a pot, and the result is a steamy stew of emotional turmoil. Yet what it boils down to is one all-consuming basic need.

 

With shocking cultural differences, relatives foaming at the mouth and goals on opposing trajectories, the fight to keep it together is looming large. Is their love strong enough to withstand it all? And will they triumph against the formidable mountains standing in their way?

SECRETS OF THE HEART (HEART SERIES BOOK THREE) (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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Life is full of surprises, but no one is more surprised than Catherine when a mysterious figure from her past arrives uninvited. Suddenly, deception and lies rear their ugly head when everything she thought she knew turns upside down.

 

Abdul’s challenges intensify, and his respect for his wife is questioned by someone new occupying her heart. Hostility and jealousy dominate while battles unfold, and the contrasting journeys of two people merge.

 

Religion, ethnicity, culture, nationality and above all, family, are intertwined in the search for truth when secrets slowly reveal a shocking reality. Previous perceptions transform, creating fresh loyalties…

 

With Catherine’s beginnings coming to light, the struggle between ancestral DNA and adopted love emerges. Is blood really thicker than water? And how is identity truly defined?

HOLIDAY OF THE HEART (HEART SERIES BOOK FOUR) (CLICK HERE FOR AMAZON BOOK LINK)

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Amirah can’t wait for Christmas. Leaving her Egyptian roots to restart in New York, she salivates over the American dream. If only her parents understood.

 

Rajab stresses more over love than nationality when he meets an enchanting woman. But the relationship is scandalous. Terrified of his father’s disapproval and seething reaction, Rajab struggles to keep the secret. The repercussions could be disastrous.

Together, Catherine and Abdul are the magnet for the group, but an outside force threatens their marriage while fall celebrations are underway.

 

The holiday season is busy for most, but for this interfaith union, the festive days multiply. Can Christians, Jews and Muslims sit at the same dinner table in peace? Find out as the Shadid and DiMarco family stumbles through holiday after holiday on this interfaith journey.

DANDELION FUZZ IS A COLLECTION OF OVER 100 FREE VERSE POEMS REE VERSE POEMS.

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Deep within the most guarded sections of the soul is a heartache, desperately begging for release. These poems provide that catharsis, that cleansing, essential for the greater happiness waiting around the corner with a welcoming embrace. Wring the tears out of the heart and start anew: take a dandelion, blow away the fuzz and make a wish.

 

Get Dandelion Fuzz on Amazon here.

 

BANISHED THOUGHTS (Click here)

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There are thoughts we are not supposed to think, words we cannot say. The narrative has been prescribed, and opting out is a risk. But free speech is not one-sided. Poetry is not reserved for conformists, elitists or even anarchists. Banished Thoughts is a collection of free-verse poems and essays of unfiltered expression.

 

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All books are available on Amazon. Click HERE.

To read more about the author, click on her About page or her Amazon author page.

 

Thank you, DM Miller, for a wonderful insight into your writing process.

 

 

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My Review of “The Debt & the Doormat” by Laura Barnard

 

I’ve had this book on my kindle for a while now, my TBR list is immense. I wasn’t sure what to expect when I dipped into this book but I got more than I bargained for. Poppy and Jazz are best friends, they know each other inside out and back to front as good friends do. But therein lies the only similarity between them. Poppy is clumsy and has given up on life after a disastrous relationship, she reclines in life like an old-fashioned heroine from a bygone age would on chaise longue. Jazz, on the other hand, is the rich daughter of a now dead millionaire who made his fortune in the porn industry. She wears revealing clothes but has the freedom of a hippy at heart. On a drunken night in they decide to swap lives and that is where the fun starts.

Poppy can’t help but do everything wrong, she falls flat on her face, she makes plans to help people that backfires spectacularly and she has a pushy mum into the bargain. I laughed out loud on the London Underground because of this book, I also cried in public (think I might have been hormonal at the time!). I rated this book so highly that I rushed out and bought the next book in the series and read that straight away too.

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News from around the world

Former leader of Catalonia, Carles Puigdemont, who is wanted in Spain for sedition and rebellion has been detained in Germany. He has been living in self-imposed exile in Belgium since October 2017.

A European arrest warrant was recently reactivated against him.

News from London

A new water fountain has been installed in London’s Carnaby Street as part of a campaign to get people to ditch using single-use plastic bottles. 20 fountains will be installed along busy commuter and shopping routes in the city. The fountains are part of a £750,000 project to cut plastic waste/

My News

My new coffee table arrived this week. My living room is starting to come together. Just a few more items needed to finish it but think I need to get another wage packet or two first.

Had a fairly good week at work settled into one location for a change although that is set to change again next week.

At long last I made it to the hairdressers to get my highlights done, feeling great again.

Writing News

Sins of the Father is back from the editor and I’m 16 pages out of 123 into making the changes.

 

 

 

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Returning E-Books

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Some people will only read free e-books. That is certainly their prerogative, and there are so many authors willing to give their books away for free just for that off-chance to maybe gain serious readers who will go on to buy the authors’ other books. Or they hope for that big break—maybe an agent, maybe a publisher, or maybe someone connected with an agent or publisher will read the free book and fall in love with the writing. Yeah, it’s a long shot.

The truth is that many of the freebie readers aren’t willing to pay for books. Fine, if that’s how they are. Obviously, they don’t care about the time and effort that went into writing the book and don’t feel the author deserves to be paid for hundreds, if not thousands of hours of work.

But the worst is when people want to cheat the system. The worst…

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